I love where I live. It’s a relatively small borough, yet rich in history and culture. I moved out of my parent’s house to my cozy one bedroom apartment about three years ago. Normally, I am an extrovert and lead with my heart, but moving out and living as an adult on my own, made me feel more cautious. Feeling shy and timid, I stayed in most of the time in my first couple of months, not really engaging with my surroundings. But as time pressed on, slowly and surely I started to come out of my shell.
It started with my walks to work. I was fortunate enough to work close by and be able to walk and as a lover of the environment, I was happy not to have to use my car. Despite my initial shyness in engaging with my surroundings, I was always captivated by the sights, smells, and sounds I passed everyday to and from work.
The architecture throughout the town is an intriguing mix of old and new. Each storefront unique in it’s own way and each restaurant with it’s own signature scent wafting out of the front door. I started to notice the same people everyday too, friendly as always. The rigidity I initially felt slowly started to soften as I began to grow more and more curious about truly exploring the world around me.
Throughout the years, I have found so many places I love and people I cherish. It can be hard to get involved and try new things. I think most of us fear embarrassment, which is understandable. But limiting yourself out of fear is one of the most stifling things you can do.
Becoming involved in my community has truly opened me up to a world of endless possibilities and people who genuine and full of life. Since I dared step outside my front door, I have become part of a diverse culture that adds so much positivity to my life.
I have been able to tap into my creativity by volunteering at the local art association, test my critical thinking skills by joining the borough chess club, help my community by participating with the green team, and so much more. The area around me has so much to offer and I feel so grateful to be a part of it.
So here’s a pro tip: If you are moving to a new location, don’t be afraid to get involved, try new things, and meet new people! Most towns and boroughs have a weekly/monthly newsletter they put out, so don’t forget to follow it. Plus, baristas at any local cafe always know what’s happening in town; don’t be scared to ask them for recommendations on what to check out!